TY - BOOK AU - May,Simon TI - How to be a refugee: one family's story of exile and belonging SN - 9781529042818 (hbk.) : AV - D804.3 U1 - 940.5318 MAY 23 PY - 2021/// CY - London PB - Picador KW - May, Simon KW - Holocaust, Jewish (1939-1945) KW - Germany KW - Jews KW - History KW - 20th century KW - Denial (Psychology) KW - Warfare and Defence KW - eflch KW - ukslc N2 - The most familiar fate of Jews living in Hitler's Germany is either emigration or deportation to concentration camps. But there was another, much rarer, side to Jewish life at that time: denial of your origin to the point where you manage to erase almost all consciousness of it. You refuse to believe that you are Jewish. 'How to Be a Refugee' is Simon May's account of how three sisters - his mother and his two aunts - grappled with what they felt to be a lethal heritage. Their very different trajectories included conversion to Catholicism, marriage into the German aristocracy, securing 'Aryan' status with high-ranking help from inside Hitler's regime, and engagement to a card-carrying Nazi ER -